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Welcome -- It's January 2016 and I am not giving up on the idea that people may appreciate and benefit from some of my story. I began in 2008 in a quest to blog my reflective experience through the lens of my virtues. Life, while full of rich lessons, did not provide the time and space needed to blog. Some days I wish I had a record of it all, other days I am grateful that I did not make a public exhibition. However, today, I commit to power-up the joy, meaning and purpose in my life. I hope that you will find it inspiring and helpful in your own journey. As a Virtues Project Master Facilitator and Grace Coach, it is my mission in life to help change the culture of our caring. As a humanity, the quality of our relationships is what truly matters. I aim to blog about virtues, what they mean to me and how they inspire, or challenge my life. Follow along with me if you are curious or care to do the same. Leave comments if you can, pose questions or link me if my blog has encouraged you. I look forward to connecting.

Thursday, January 2, 2020

Acceptance is about Surrender

01/02/2020 - Surrender to your Soul

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I am learning that day by day, lesson by lesson, year after year that it seems to me that for some reason, I keep bumping into the same pattern. Each time the scene is painted differently, new people, dynamics and stages of my life but low and behold, the underlying issues are the same. Take the last decade for instance, I've been challenged with issues of abandonment, betrayal and my truthfulness.

So let's be clear. I've always had abandonment and betrayal issues - always. I think it may have started when I was in utero; my father had a long affair with my mother's best friend at the time; my mother's emotions, dealing with her own instincts throughout the deceit - I was swimming in my mothers grief and long effected after he left when I was 2. 

As a grown woman and a mother myself, Suspected or confirmed, I know the power of emotions. They've been known to completely rob me of experiencing anything in the 'now', in fact my trauma response seems to hijack thoughts from 'now' and force them into the past or future - there's a time where it's impossible to face the truth of the present. Once I can, it's another trauma. What's the issue?

What I think I've come to in my 58 years, the lesson here that I keep bumping into is that it's not actually the issue that's the issue, it's the repetition of the lesson and my lack of understanding the lesson it serves my Soul. So until I start asking questions like, "What is it that I have not been healing/dealing or revealing? How I get in touch with the answer of this question?" nothing I do seems to matter! I don't get beyond the issue to look at the lesson when I'm just fixing the wound. It's important to stop the bleed but more-so to find the lesson.

I can seek answers outside of myself or I can learn to seek guidance from within myself. In 2020 I believe it's time to take this healing more seriously, and more joyfully, in order to transform and transcend the lessons. I am breaking patterns!

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